Sand Ceremony What Is The Best Wording For A Unity Sand Ceremony That Includes The Mother-in-laws?

What is the best wording for a Unity Sand Ceremony that includes the mother-in-laws? - sand ceremony

I am married and my friend and I play with the idea to do a sand ceremony, but we have the symbolism of our mothers, who express their support (like it) the foundation for us to himself. What is the best wording to be included?